5/23/2011

7 Ways to Preventing Sexual Problems

When deciding to get married, each spouse actually decided to accept the challenge. Marital problems originated from the failure to manage the challenges of marriage. So the reality shows there are couples who are happy, some are not. Which is not necessarily happy undisturbed problem, but they managed to overcome them.

One issue that often arises, and often a wedge for the married couple is sexual problems. Sexual life is one aspect of the wedding / marriage. This is a form of communication that most deep and beautiful, of course if it lasts harmonious sexual life.

To foster a harmonious sexual life, husband and wife should be aware that a harmonious sexual relationship actually requires a learning process. Because this can not be achieved simply by itself.

Prof. Dr. Wimpie Pangkahila, Sexologist in his paper entitled "Promoting Sexual Life Harmonious Marriage To Happiness" (June 2000), provides some suggestions to help prevent sexual problems are often tortured couple, namely:

Remember that the quality of sexual relationships is very much determined by what happened previously. Not only for a moment before, but a few hours or even days earlier.

Familiarity and intimacy of husband and wife are very important.
Maintain and keep your health in general so as not exposed to the disease or disorder that can lead to disruption of sexual function.

Speak openly about sexuality with the wife or husband. Closure of husband and wife is a barrier in an attempt to achieve a harmonious sexual life. And result in non-disclosure of sexual problems that exist.
Try to have a regular time to your partner together.

Do not let the sexual relationship into something routine and monotonous. Many couples experience sexual dissatisfaction because they feel weary in sexual contact performed. It required sexual variations, including changing positions and foreplay, not allowing one to be active and hold while her partner continued to passive, attention to physical appearance, for example by way of dressing up or wearing a new perfume fragrance tempting.
Do not carry anger or annoyance into the bedroom. It will only ruin the mood that is not supporting the achievement of a satisfying sexual relationship.

When experiencing sexual problems, do not be left just hoping it would soon disappear by itself. Consult with experts to immediately be addressed properly and responsibly.

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